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More and Better vs. Better Leads to More

How would you prefer to grow – as a person, as a team, as a business?

As I was working with a client CEO reviewing a recent growth plan and looking towards how we need to adapt it for the new year, the image is what I scribbled down as it popped into my mind. This concept drove the rest of our conversation as we outline that plan for the board.

So allow me to make a case for at least a balance between more and better, and a move towards defining and measuring better before you define and measure more – as a person, for your team, for your business.

(Slight aside – I am a Bears fan and have done my best to not make any reference to Good, Better, Best…)

We – as people, as teams, as businesses – default to More and Better. More friends, more connections, more people on the team or the team doing more, more at the proverbial top of the funnel, more in terms of full pipelines, more in terms of revenue and profit. And then figure out what better is by churning through the more. The process keeps us busy, makes our models and systems smarter, and so on. More certainly produces a whole lot of data.

We – as people, as teams, as businesses – tend to have something inside of us telling us what’s better. Allowing ourselves to be who we are, doing what we are good at, doing what we enjoy, what we love tends to lead to better. However, we tend to put that on the back burner as we look around and think we see so many having so much success with more.

And as we are increasingly tuned in to algorithmic-based success on digital platforms, more and better takes on an ever evolving meaning where more definitely outstrips better. And the definition of better can be lost in the desire to continually ratchet up the more.

But the authenticity of better attracts more. More of better connections with people, more of better connections with your team, more of better connections with those who are most passionate about your business. More of people who understand you better, which means you and they can make better decisions about spending more time and/or money together.

Personally, your better provides the filter for the sorts of people you want to spend your time with, and the sorts of work you want to spend your time on. Within your team, your better provides the filter for who is on your team. Within your business, better provides the filter for who you serve and how you serve them.

In the midst of your annual planning – or your annual resolution setting for that matter, make sure you understand your goals and KPIs for better. You’ll find regardless of how you define more, your better will lead to growth – as a person, as a team, as a business.

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The 3 Books on My Desk Right Now

Every so often, I look at the stack of books on my desk that I’m frequently thumbing through and start to wonder how they’re all connected. They tend to be a snapshot of what I’m working through, thinking about, and seeking to improve, but subject matter can often seem disparate. Right now, these three are being referenced quite a bit.

STRENGTHSFINDER 2.0 – TOM RATH
This one has a perpetual spot either on my desk or somewhere within arms reach.

Whether you’re leading a team or contributing as part of one, knowing and applying your strengths is a competitive advantage. Moving from “fixing” weaknesses to amplifying strengths is a powerful mindset shift. I use my top 10 strengths as the foundation of my personal brand and positioning. And as you see below, I have them prominently featured on the wall just to the left of my monitor so they’re never far from my line of sight.

THE ADVANTAGE – PATRICK LENCIONI
I’ve used the approach and methods in this book on companies I’ve worked at and brands I’ve worked on – and I recently applied part of it to my personal brand as well.

The methods in this book for building cohesive leaderships team, creating clarity, over-communicating clarity, and reinforcing clarity are valuable internally to any organization. But what I’ve found is that clarity created internally translates very well to how a company goes to market. It’s not a marketing book, but if you’re looking for ways to uncover who you are as a company or a brand, it’s a valuable resource.

For my personal brand, I focused on the section of the book around creating clarity. The process forced me to think deeply about my purpose, my core values, and what I do professionally. The outcome and insight I have from StrengthsFinder was incredibly useful for this process.

STOP OVERTHINKING – NICK TRENTON
Overthinking is perhaps the bane of most folks who are or consider themselves “planners” by nature.

For me, it can be a side effect of my various strengths – two of which are Learner and Strategic. I’m not an analysis paralysis type of person, don’t have a Sherlock Holmes “Mind Palace” thing, but I love to learn and I love to consider alternatives.

The techniques in this book to declutter and focus the mind are incredibly helpful for those of us who tend to have a hard time finding the off switch. The most important reminder for me personally is that clarity comes from action. Get some things going, see how they work, then use that insight and information to continue making more informed decisions.

Always interesting how each book I may be referencing tends to appear to be unrelated to the others, yet taken as a whole, each plays a part in driving cohesive thinking…

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One More Thing I Learned from Failing

The other piece I wrote on the topic of failing was a practical, on the job perspective. A few steps to take in order to ensure clarity at work to do your best to avoid failing.

This one is more personal and, I think, ultimately more important.

This is more nuanced than the standard work life balance or work life integration perspective. I was blessed to learn as a younger man to not take time with my family for granted – after spending the first decade of my career doing just that. Don’t get me wrong – if you have a family, absolutely do not miss the times with them that you will never get back due to work. It is never too late to learn that lesson.

What I have learned is to not allow stressors from your work life get in the way of who YOU are as a person and what YOU enjoy doing.

Do not allow yourself to get so wrapped up in, so worried about, or so overwhelmed with what’s going on in your job that you lose who you are, or neglect things you are passionate about.

And most certainly do not let tough times at work define who you are.

For instance, if you love expressing yourself in writing, don’t go 4 years without posting to your blog. It really doesn’t matter how many readers there might be. The act of playing with ideas, finding new connections in those ideas, organizing my thoughts, then externalizing it in writing is the release for me.

And it builds on itself, keeps the mind active and turning over new learning, finding new connections. And the sharpness it produces spills into sharpness and productivity in the job.

But, more importantly, it means for my family and friends I’m more engaged, more happy, more curious, more open to new things.

Your thing may not be writing. I also love to read actual books, play golf, go to baseball games, listen to all kinds of music, and taking day trips with my lovely wife exploring places we’ve never been.

I strongly believe it’s important to bring the whole person to whatever you’re doing. I don’t believe there is a me at work and a me at home and a me with my friends and me as a writer.

All the people you touch in your life deserve to get all of you when you’re with them.

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What I’ve Learned from Failing

I was planning to start this piece with a quote about failure and resilience from Abraham Lincoln. He is my standby for such things. However, other than Jesus and Shakespeare, he may be the person in history with the most quotes improperly attributed to him.

Instead, I can sum up what I’ve learned about failing with this:

Lack of clarity – up, down, and sideways – leads to failure.

That isn’t to say clarity leads to success. Clarity points everyone in the right direction. You still have to do the work to make it happen and keep everyone aligned towards the right direction, making pivots when appropriate. But if you don’t start with clarity, you definitely will not get where you want to go in the time you want to get there.

Thus, what I’ve learned from failing are a few good ways to ensure clarity.

ASK. THEN BE QUIET. | or | BE QUIET. THEN ASK.

You may find yourself in a situation where you have an audience with a leader, maybe your boss or your boss’ boss, who has a vision or a strategy or a plan that you’ve had a chance to review and you’ve got questions. In this case, you ask questions and be quiet while they’re answered.

Or you may find yourself in a situation where the leader is presenting or simply stating their vision or strategy or plan, but it isn’t in writing. In this case, you’ll be quiet and ask questions when the time is appropriate.

And if you do not have a situation where you have an audience with the leader, get it. Then, ask questions and be quiet. It is very important at the outset you have clarity from the most senior person you can get an audience with on what their vision and expectations of you are.

Regardless, make sure you go into such a discussion with some set of standard questions you might use to ensure your own understanding of the current situation and desired outcome. Get as many of the questions out and answered at the outset.

And after you do this with the leader, then you need to go to your team and do the same. And then go sideways to colleagues at your level who are leading teams in other functions. Basically, you need the up, down, and sideways perspective of as much of the organization as possible.

Some leaders tend to jump to a solution, or feel they’ve done enough work to articulate what they think the solution is, and what your role in it should be. And they might be right.

When it comes to asking your team and peers, there tends to be the same type of behavior as with leaders. It’s important to see if what’s being articulated by your team and peers aligns to what you heard from the leader. Consistent alignment throughout is a good indicator of clarity.

You, however, should make no assumptions on what the situation is or what the situation calls for. Ask the questions of everyone even if you do know or think you know all or most of the answers.

And start laying the groundwork for the next steps. Ask who you need to go to in order to find data about the market, customers/segments, business analytics, CRM, martech stack, and whatever data is used to make decisions or create go to market actions. Ask who you need to go to about project management systems, documented workflows, process documents, and other systems and documents for how work gets done on the team and across teams.

Finally, and maybe most important, find out from the leader how they prefer to see strategy and plans presented to them – or if they prefer to be part of the planning process and want to see work in progress.

MAKE SENSE. DON’T ASSUME IT.

Unless you’re told otherwise, change of some sort, to some degree, is either wanted or needed. What has “worked” either isn’t working anymore, or is only addressing a part of a now evolving situation that you have been brought into address.

But you cannot address the best approaches to take without getting (1) as much data as possible about the market and the customers in the market (consumers and B2B, as well as relevant internal customers), (2) how the business currently goes to market, and (3) how the business – and your team – performs and is perceived in the market – and your team with internal customers.

Do not allow yourself to be dissuaded from finding the data you need. The data is there. Or enough data is there for an inquiring mind to build upon, cross-reference, combine, and then synthesize into the foundation of a strong story from which your strategy can be built.

Do not allow yourself to be pressured into creating a plan or making changes to the current state of things without allowing for the time needed to do this work. This is an important point in time where the old adage, “Sometimes you have to go slow to go fast” comes into play. That’s not to say you take all the time in the world here – you’re not looking for a “perfect plan”. But, more than likely, the situation you’ve been brought into is the way it is because something isn’t being looked at correctly or the right things aren’t being looked at through the right lens.

And since we’re on old adages, do not throw the baby out with the bathwater. While it is likely you are in the situation you are in to make change, there tend to be good reasons for why work is done the way it is done. Complete overhauls may be needed in some areas, but there will be areas where fine tuning is all that is required.

At this stage, it’s important that you take partners. Show your team how you do this work, what questions needed answered, how to synthesize different data, and assign some of it to them. Make it a collaborative process in some way with your peers and with those from whom you pulled data. Let them see what sort of questions you’re asking and how you are applying what you’re learning. It’s OK to have some debate and disagreement here. While you bring a level of knowledge and a different way of thinking, no one has the corner on smarts. Plus, taking the partners now will stress test your hypotheses earlier and make the work that lies ahead go more smoothly.

And if the leader, usually your boss, wants to be part of the process or see work in progress, let them see the questions you’re asking, how you’re applying what you’re learning, and what further questions you have. Let them provide guidance to ensure a tighter alignment later. I like to say I don’t want a strategy or plan to be a big reveal and a “Ta Da!” moment upwards. I much prefer it to be something with head nods and engagement already baked in.

RALLY ALL THE TROOPS. INCLUDING THE GENERALS.

Recall the last few things I mentioned when you are asking and being quiet or being quiet and asking. I said you needed to lay groundwork for what lies ahead.

I just referenced the importance of taking partners as you make sense. Notice that the partners are above you, your team, and your peers – up, down, and sideways. While upwards tends to be the most important audience for being able to execute your intentions, building up your team and ensuring alignment with your peers is what will make your plans truly powerful.

Set formal times to either workshop the plan or present the plan to your team and peers before it goes upwards. And get some partners in that presentation upwards as well. It sets a leader’s mind at ease to see a strong, cross-functional team aligned behind the clarity they’ve provided.

Regardless of the form or format of the deliverable, state your case in simple terms. Support your case with clear data points. Do it with the minimal amount of content or time required. If it comes across as obvious and simple – you’ve done some great work.

A great way to ensure clarity is to make things obvious and simple.

And clarity is the best first step to avoid failing.

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REPOST: 5 Key Investments Leaders Need to Make (with an emphasis on Giving Encouragement)

I wrote this back in 2021. However, I got the “What’s your leadership style?” question in an interview a couple of days ago.

I was reflecting on my answer after the interview, when I recalled this post. In the interview, I focused primarily on the first three, but I led with the second – Give Encouragement. Why?

My Mom passed away in August of 2023. Taped to the mirror in the bathroom of the home where my Dad still lives and where I grew up, written in her once beautiful, but then shakily affected by arthritis, handwriting is this scripture:

The world can be cynical. It can feel like it’s filled with experts on every subject, shouting at you from all sides if you care to listen. It can make you feel less than if you allow it. It can seem like everyone is living their best life, and you’re missing out somehow if you let it.

Leaders need to provide insight. Leaders need to build up. Leaders need to provide reality and point the way. Leaders need to encourage.

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I’m feeling especially inspired after a great sermon this morning at church. It focused on five investments in our personal relationships that unconditional love leads people to make. In and of itself, it was a powerful message for application in my personal life.

On the drive home, in a moment of lateral thinking, it struck me that these five things are applicable when it comes to professional relationships. And especially relevant when it comes to Leaders investing time and energy into the individuals on their team.

First, give instruction. But not just any instruction. Make sure you take the time to show how to do things correctly. To make sure it’s understood the instruction given is to provide the most benefit to your customers. And that those on your team are capable of giving and staying true to that instruction.

Second, give encouragement. The top pitfall that can bring people down is being discouraged. Ultimately, it can lead to apathy. That is not to say you should puff someone up if it’s not deserved, but seek to be consistent in your encouragement and keep it focused on the instructions to do things correctly. Be aware of when someone is moving into a part of their role that is challenging, or a time of year that is tougher than others. Lift people up.

Third, give affirmation. When you see someone doing something well, tell them right then. If you hear about someone doing something well, make sure they know that you know. We have so many tools to communicate with our teams these days that finding ways to give affirmation – and encouragement for that matter – should be easy. Try to do it in as real time as possible.

Fourth, give example(s). Now, this is mainly focused on the example of how you as a Leader behave, engage and go about your work. Demonstrate how your team should act by showing them in everything that you do – including and especially in how you work with them.

But I’ll extend it. Give specific examples whenever you can of your expectations. This can be scenarios provided of how to manage certain situations. This can be learning opportunities of situations that did not go well and how it could have gone better. Concrete examples are effective when it comes to instruction, encouragement and affirmation as well.

Fifth, give them a vision. I’m reinterpreting this point a bit from the sermon, but I believe it fits. As a Leader, you need to show your team that they have the opportunity to grow, to one day being not just someone who works for you, but a colleague. Help them understand what that path looks like and what it takes to be successful on it. They may want something else – which you should seek to understand – but you – and they – won’t know until the vision is given.

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